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  • Solumbran@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    If the two individuals aged for a significant part of their lives together, offsprings are not the only “harm”.

    Forming relationships with people that are different (as in, not relatives) helps avoid the bad parts of the family structure (the weird beliefs, opinions, behaviours, etc, that are taught within a family but are not accepted outside of it). Without that, you can end up with something that seems like “cultural inbreeding” where the weirdness persists and grows, until it reaches weird shit.


    On a side note

    Arguably a similar effect already happens in western countries thanks to xenophobia, and that’s why you have people that care so much about transmitting their DNA and having their own biological kids as if it mattered. This is just the remnants of a deeply racist culture that believes that you need to preserve your family line, and with it, your DNA. If people were mixing more with other cultures and origins, this would seem much more absurd.

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      Forming relationships with people that are different (as in, not relatives) helps avoid the bad parts of the family structure

      That is an argument from utility, which can most certainly be debated. What constitutes “bad”? That is a subjective interpretation.

      where the weirdness persists and grows, until it reaches weird shit.

      And how do we define “weird shit”? Are “normal” relationships not “weird shit” and don’t they lead to “weird shit”?

      their DNA and having their own biological kids as if it mattered.

      Well, it matters to them. Therefore, it matters. Doesn’t it? It does to them.

      Genuinely just poking at arguments here, I have no decided opinion either way.

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        It’s more of a question of what is healthy psychologically. Staying to close to one group socially makes a sort of echo chamber, and that’s always a problem.

        And that’s what I mean with “weird shit”, things like racism are quite known to be increased in people that are not in contact with people of color for example. Echo chambers are generally bad, and I feel like this would create a very strong one (“us against the world” and whatnot)

        DNA doesn’t matter when it comes to kids if you don’t have a background thought that is at least a bit problematic. It’s not about what matters to them only, but also about what is morally wrong. This “DNA is everything” thing is extremely toxic

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          Staying to close to one group socially makes a sort of echo chamber, and that’s always a problem.

          Should we ban homeschooling for this reason?

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            I mean, homeschooling can definitely cause that kind of issue.

            The difference being that there are good sides to it too, while there are no good sides coming from incest, and trying to equate the two seems a bit far fetched and incoherent.

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              I’m not a bit fan of incest myself but this response doesn’t seem very satisfying. Just saying “there is nothing good about it” just seems very wishy-washy and hand-wavy

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                What can be good about it that a normal relationship cannot provide?

                I can’t imagine a single answer. Thus, “nothing good about it” seems accurate.

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                  You could say that about any arbitrary type of relationship that you don’t like though.

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                    With the difference being that incest brings a lot of problems that other relationships don’t. Offsprings are one, I mentioned others, and I’m sure you could find more.