Give me something juicy

  • ageedizzle@piefed.caOP
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    6 days ago

    Staying to close to one group socially makes a sort of echo chamber, and that’s always a problem.

    Should we ban homeschooling for this reason?

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      6 days ago

      I mean, homeschooling can definitely cause that kind of issue.

      The difference being that there are good sides to it too, while there are no good sides coming from incest, and trying to equate the two seems a bit far fetched and incoherent.

      • ageedizzle@piefed.caOP
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        6 days ago

        I’m not a bit fan of incest myself but this response doesn’t seem very satisfying. Just saying “there is nothing good about it” just seems very wishy-washy and hand-wavy

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          6 days ago

          What can be good about it that a normal relationship cannot provide?

          I can’t imagine a single answer. Thus, “nothing good about it” seems accurate.

          • ageedizzle@piefed.caOP
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            6 days ago

            You could say that about any arbitrary type of relationship that you don’t like though.

            • Solumbran@lemmy.world
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              6 days ago

              With the difference being that incest brings a lot of problems that other relationships don’t. Offsprings are one, I mentioned others, and I’m sure you could find more.

              • ageedizzle@piefed.caOP
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                6 days ago

                Relationships with big age gaps can also cause a lot of problems but I also wouldn’t want to make it illegal for, say, a 30 year old to date a 50 year old.

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                  This is also a weird case, because the problem with age difference is maturity, which is not measurable as of now. A 30 years old dating a 50 years old is weird, but less than a 20 years old dating a 40 years old, and yet all of these also can vary based on individuals. And most people wouldn’t see a problem with a 70 years old going with a 90 years old. That’s why it’s struggle to make well-defined laws about it.

                  For incest, once again, the problems are the norm, and then maybe you can find some exceptions. But why push it to be fine and allowed, when it doesn’t bring anything, again? It’s just opening for more issues to come, with no real benefit because incest is, in most cases rather than not, a problem.

                  And how do you prevent problems of offsprings, or of dominant position? Do you have to sterilize by force people in such relationships, after having them investigated to check that the relationship is actually consensual? Who would need to have sex with their relative so much that they would want to go through all this? That’s why I’m saying that it just feels like a lot of trouble and problems, for nothing good.

                  • ageedizzle@piefed.caOP
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                    5 days ago

                    For incest, once again, the problems are the norm, and then maybe you can find some exceptions.

                    This is a fair enough point, though still the only issue I can really see is the offspring thing. Would you feel better if it was a gay relationship? Say two sisters who were raised apart and then reconnected. I can literally see no issue with this besides the ick factor