fuck I’m not in the right headspace when I’m asking this, unresolved trauma. Now I’m repeating in my head “love them more than my mental illnesses”.
I wanted to warn an organization i cared about my past and that manipulation comes naturally to me to the point where I don’t notice after the fact. I legit want see them succeeded and stand in blind solidarity.
I have reached out someone in the organization about my issues. I’m hoping they respond.
If you wish to address these behaviors you need to speak with a therapist. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. It’s like a workout for your brain. We really can’t help you. I wish you well. It’s possible to change and better yourself, but only if you truly wish to.