My ex wife subjected me to over a decade of emotional, verbal, physical, and sexual abuse. I spent our entire marriage feeling trapped, that I had to hold it together “for the sake of the kids,” and that I had no alternatives. Eventually I imploded, ended up institutionalized, and she used the situation to convince every one of her friends and mine that she was the victim.

If I had the chance today, I’d thank her with several applications of a crowbar to her temple.