i just give it a little squeeze and it splits in two and it’s the easiest thing to pull apart, way easier than trying to get the stem part to separate unless you have a knife and cut it first…

finally found my people in this thread

+1 for rustdesk. been using it on win 10/11, mint, and android for a few years now and no issues. you can set up your own server for connection facilitation or use theirs.