Maybe, but on a personal level I would like to be able to better explain myself.

I thought that’s what you meant. I’ve felt that way a few times before, but I’m not sure what words to use to describe or categorize this sentiment 🤔

How so? Could you give some examples of reasons that would and reasons that wouldn’t matter? I’m not sure what these would be, but something tells me that we might find the reason for someone’s preference against NB might be similarly important as someone’s preference to not date a black man 🤔

Do you feel similarly about other kinds of major surgery or only involving genitals specifically?

Does the reason why they don’t want to date a black man matters?