• Geth@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    8 hours ago

    Not trying to tell you to parent better, shit’s hard, but I see two possible things that might help.

    First, any device he uses should be filtered from the open internet on router level with a white list of approved things he can access.

    And second, you really need to talk with him about it. Why it’s a bad idea to text numbers of the floor, how cards are gambling and how specifically gabling will ruin his life and about addiction and how almost everything on the internet is designed to create it and abuse it. These would be long and not just once conversations with examples and reiterations because the subjects are complex and he will need a long time to process and absorb all that.

    Good luck!

    • cannedtuna@lemmy.world
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      3 hours ago

      Yeah man, we’ve had many long talks about it. Doesn’t seem to get through. He says he understands, but then this shit happens. It’s just an ongoing thing